SINGLE SOMALI MEN STAGE PROTEST OVER OUTRAGEOUS BRIDE PRICES
A group of single men
have gone public to protest over the inflated dowry in Somalia. In the photos,
the Somali men holding signs that read ‘Still I am Single’, were said to have
held their protest at the Mansoor hotel in Hargeisa.
According to them, they
said the brides’ parents are extorting men through the inflated bride price in
the country.
Has marriage become an
expensive affair these days where you live? There have been stories of people
spending millions of dollars just for that one special day.
There have also been
stories of men complaining of what women make them go through for that perfect
wedding.
Does what is spent on a
wedding say anything about the love between couples and maybe something about how
long the marriage is going to last? do these things even matter at all or what
matters is that there has been a wedding?
Some men are now up in
arms against what they say is an expensive affair to even think of marriage.
Single men in
Somaliland who are saying are eligible bachelors are protesting against
marriage costs saying day by day they are just spiralling.
According to a story on
Somaliland Nation News, to get married in Somaliland, a young man has to have a
hefty sum in hand. Estimates range from
US$10000 to $15000.
However there are fears
that the high costs of marriages, has contributed to a fall in marriage
statistics, pushing further and further the age in which young Somaliland men
get formally married.
This figures however
may make someone in Nigeria or Uganda actually surprised because for such
ceremonies in those countries, it is matter of status on that particular day.
In these countries, if
you want a wife you must cough your all.
It was only a few
months back that religious clerics in Somaliland set the betrothal (meher)
price at $500, calling on marrying couples and their families to keep down the
cost of marriage and to clip the long process leading to the establishment of a
‘married’ household.
Islam does not condone
high dowry prices or extravagant marriage ceremonies.
The protest by the
single men had a largely positive, impact on social media circles in the
region.
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